Here are some books I have personally read and believe are helpful in healing.
I have also included some videos about PTSD, Trauma, and the brain.
Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
The Language of Letting Go Daily Devotional by Melody Beattie
Broken Open by Elizabeth Lesser
When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron (many of her books are great)
Attached The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help Find and Keep-Love by Amir Levine, M.D. and Rachell S.F. Heller, M.A.
Daring Greatly by Brene Brown, Ph.D., LMSW
Love Warrior by Glennon Doyle Melton
Carry On Warrior The power of Embracing your Messy beautiful Life by Glennon Doyle Melton
Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl